Our Children are our Future

28 people are murdered in a Connecticut school by a 20 year old boy. Huh? If I heard this 20 years ago I would have thought it was a joke or some prank. If you take a back seat, The Mayan's left us clues as to the enThe Mayan's left us clues as to the end of the World. But is it really the "end" or is it that the universe will change as we know it on 12/21/12. We all may think that our world will just implode and we'll evaporate into space. But if you really think about this......our society, world, religions, weather, terrorism, war, financial status of economy, our government, education, children murdering children in schools have been going on and drastically changing for 20 years. It's not the same universe anymore and it directly reflects how we live. Kids don't play outside, ride bikes, play stickball in streets. They would rather play or surf the Internet. And as parents we don't even want our kids going outside or even down the block cause you cannot trust anyone. Wherever they go or hear or see it is constant controversial content all around them. What we need to do as parents is make sure these kids know that no matter what happens in life FAMILY is most important. All the superficial nonsense means nothing when you look up to and look forward to being with family. The bullying, the clique groups and the singling out of people would be insignificant if we concentrated on family and was really matters. Our kids need to be told we love them in the morning and when they go to bed. Look at the Hurricane recently. if that hasn't shown the universe is changing I dont know what will. We should never refuse a hug when asked from them. We should never refuse a talk when they ask to talk. Nothing comes before them. We owe this to them. The Universe is going to change and there is nothing we can do. But we can help them stay safe and choose the best path. God bless all our children. God bless the families and children in Connecticut. And God Bless our world we live in. Keep our kids number one!!!!!

Shawn
sr@shawncreilly.com

Don't be afraid to talk to your boss

Our everyday lives are surrounded by fears that hinder our ability to grow and reach beyond our potential. This fear doesn't have to hinder us if we learn to face the fears. One thing always puzzles me and its the fear many employees have about how their boss or bosses boss will react to a question, favor or disagreement asked of them. We all have jobs to do. And if your job requires that you make the best decisions for the business then in order for you to prepare to do so you need to ask questions and get answers. Don't be afraid to ask questions and if you already know the answer then ask another question. Don't be a wise ass!! Now another point to keep in mind is confronting or disagreeing with a current situation. This could eat up a sales rep inside out if it isn't talked about. In addition, your boss needs to understand that you can handle a situation correctly and have the understanding when to speak up and take control. Only the strong survive. The weak get eatin'. If you don't agree on something or an issue has surfaced, get all of the facts before you confront your boss and be firm but professional and thorough. This exercise does a few things. Not only are you trying to fix or get your point across it shows your boss you have leadership qualities, take your Job serious and adds to that "reputation" we discussed many posts ago. Remember your reputation will follow you everywhere. Keep building it. Speak up and don't be afraid to talk to your boss!!!

Shawn